1. The Teary Eyes
2. American Idols
Music- pay attention to what's in his ear; it affects his thoughts
Sports- pay attention to how much times he gives to stats over the status of your relationship
Style-what is he wearing? Is it more important than putting on Christ?
Drive- is he driven by the upkeep of his car, his game collection, or His Spirit Man?
Ladies, if the material means more to him now, it will only magnify when you get into the relationship
3. Doors of Opportunity
If you are an OPTION, you should OPT OUT.
Girlfriend is just that- it is not you, Tina, Sally on weekends, and Shakira quarterly.
You are not a menu choice, YOU deserve to be THE ONE.
I charge you to value yourself enough to walk away from the games. YOU are a GIFT!