Games Guys Play

 So. God wants to breathe life into your heart today. No matter where you are. You may be in a healthy relationship. You may be in the recovery room, suffocating, or shattered into a million emotional splinters. This word serves as a reminder that you are valuable to God. He does not want any man using you as his plaything. You are NOT a game. You are a GIFT. God wants me to share 3 Games Guys Play. I've met enough Mr. Wrongs and Mr. Righteousness to share these with you.

1. The Teary Eyes

Some guys actually use tears to draw you in emotionally to get you to do what they want because you feel sorry for them. They will even play the victim while they wound you. Talk about reverse psychology. Don't buy into it. If he cares for you, he will not try to manipulate his way with tears.

2. American Idols

Music- pay attention to what's in his ear; it affects his thoughts

Sports- pay attention to how much times he gives to stats over the status of your relationship

Style-what is he wearing? Is it more important than putting on Christ?

Drive- is he driven by the upkeep of his car, his game collection, or His Spirit Man?

Ladies, if the material means more to him now, it will only magnify when you get into the relationship

3. Doors of Opportunity

If you are an OPTION, you should OPT OUT.

Girlfriend is just that- it is not you, Tina, Sally on weekends, and Shakira quarterly.

You are not a menu choice, YOU deserve to be THE ONE.

I charge you to value yourself enough to walk away from the games. YOU are a GIFT!