It's beginning to look alot like Christmas! Tis the season to be jolly. Sadly, an estimated 50% of relationships break up in the two weeks leading up to the most joyous time of year. Why is that?
Is it the stress of trying to find that perfect gift? Is it the demand put on the man to give a bigger, and better gift than he did when he first met you? Is he/she just too frugal to want to spend the money? Or do you always find yourself in a seasonal relationship? Let me define that for you:
A seasonal relationship is we are in a committed relationship except for any holiday season, like Christmas, New Years, Valentine's Day...you know, when you have to "demonstrate" love with a gift.
I say to you ladies and gentlemen, that you deserve better. Don't let anyone play you like a broken instrument. You should expect your relationship to last through all seasons. The most important thing is not the gift that comes wrapped, but the gift of a committed heart, to you, to the future you will share together.
Make the decision that you will not allow anyone to treat you like a part-time love. You are worthy of love for all seasons!
Blessings and Church Love!
I love this!! It is so true that you must value yourself enough to know that no one has the right to come in and out as they please. Our earthly relationships are to resemble that of Christ and the Church... If my God will never leave or forsake me, neither should my "man" (regardless of the season).
ReplyDeleteThanks, as always, for your insights, sis!!